‘How To Be Remembered’ Michael Thompson Reviewed

Tommy Llewellyn (a name he chose) is a young boy whose entire existence is wiped from the memory of everyone who knows him each year on his birthday, the fifth of January. Fortunately Tommy does not regress to babyhood each time but he grows up and has to start his life all over again to re-establish himself every single time.
A long waitlist for this book at my local library so I considered borrowing an audio book (narrated by Lewis Fitz-Gerald length 10 hours 16 minutes) but downloaded the e-book at the same time as a friend gave me the p-book, saying ‘excellent story’.
This time-slip novel starts off well with a smooth transition, easy to believe, somewhat elegiac, but plenty of compassion. One year old Tommy is sent to a former dairy converted to Milkwood House for lost, abandoned, nobody-wants-them children.

Tommy grows up and the world around him doesn’t know he already had an existence—many in fact. The scenes build, the young (soon to be forgotten) baby/child/teenager/adult matures and his life gradually unfolds amid some dramatic events. The fallout is that everyone around Tommy forgets all about him when his life resets like a bad reboot. Again and again and again. And it also resets the minds of close friends who knew Tommy—even lovely carer Miss Michelle—with no recollection of him nor the circumstances surrounding his ‘departure’.
Four things I must mention:
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First, I am not sure if this is YA or an adult book
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Second, the swearing is a bit distracting
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Third, initially Tommy doesn’t rail against his Reset circumstances, he doesn’t tell anyone or try to engineer change. Although he feels like an outcast, he becomes accepting of his strange situation, never tempted to reboot, until one fateful hot afternoon
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Fourth, this story is like a modern fairy tale e.g. don’t analyse too hard!
A bitter sweet experience occurs when Tommy turns fourteen. Something rather ordinary happened to him. Of course, given his unique circumstances, even the ordinary is going to be a problem. Tommy Llewellyn finds romance and falls in love with Carey Price, a girl older than him and he knows it won’t be smooth sailing. He already has a ‘history’ with Carey but she will never remember the true story. And Tommy is not about to tell her the upsetting details of her near death experience because she believes it was creepy Richie Sharpe who saved her life.
Disillusioned, Tommy sinks into the doldrums, a mass of rage and self-pity with a stolen bottle of Johnnie Walker Scotch Whisky chaser before winding up in a life and death situation. Will it be hospital, heaven, romance or a chance for Tommy to beat the odds and alter his unique rotating life sentence?
Further questions only answered by reading the book:
‘How To Be Remembered’ by Michael Thompson
Does the reader find out what’s going on?
Is the ‘evil spell’ broken?
Does Tommy take steps towards a normal life?
Can Tommy create his own happy ending?
Sneak peek, fast forward and Tommy does get real world experience via ‘former friend’ Josh Saunders. That’s all I’m divulging. The second half of the book is quite moving and while there is romance it is sliced through with angst and violence, pulling out all the stops. You may or may not like the ending…
If we need one, I think the moral of author Thompson’s story is to do little things to be remembered. Good things, leave a legacy of kindness and hope and love. Everyone leaves a mark on this world. Even indirectly, fleetingly, you are remembered for something you have done during your lifetime.
♥ Gretchen Bernet-Ward

Author Bio: Michael Thompson has been a successful journalist, producer and media executive for fifteen years. He now co-owns a podcast production company and is the co-host of one of the highest-ranked podcasts in Australia. ‘How to be Remembered’ is his first novel. Thompson lives in Sydney with his wife and two young children.
Similar shades of:
Life After Life by Kate Atkinson
The Time Travellers Wife by Audrey Niffenegger
The House on the Strand by Daphne Du Maurier
The Lovely Bones by Alice Sebold
Labyrinth by Kate Mosse
A Stitch in Time by Kelley Armstrong
The Outlander Series by Diana Gabaldon
The Forgotten Garden by Kate Morton
Midnight is a Lonely Place by Barbara Erskine
Dandelion Time: Romance Through Time by Nel Ashley
The Sleeping Angel by Margarita Morris
The Sins of the Fathers by Andy Conway
Lost In Time by A. G. Riddle
At the Edge of the Solid World by Daniel Davis Wood
Sea of Tranquility by Emily St. John Mandel
Mariana by Susanna Kearsley
Time Out of Time (YA) by Alex Marchant
The Timeslip Series (YA) by Belinda Murrell
The Boy Who Stepped Through Time (YA) by Anna Ciddor
Making It Home (YA) by Suzanne Roche
Playing Beatie Bow (YA) by Ruth Park
Many more I have not yet read or perhaps forgotten…






